the importance is in trying

The importance is in trying. (image from here)

Life can be really hard sometimes, really amazing sometimes, uplifting, heartbreaking, thrilling, boring, lame, terrifying, sometimes . . .  sometimes . . . sometimes . . .

I saw this quote on Pinterest. Cliche? Maybe. But it means, “The importance is in trying.” French, no less. I’m no expert in French, but the phrase is just so comforting.

Anyways, I guess I’m just saying this: Keep trying. That’s what matters.

Adieu.

xoxo,

the bbb blogger

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sustain you

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Love means that you are willing to sustain another person.

sus·tain /səˈstān/
verb
  1. strengthen or support physically or mentally.
  2. undergo or suffer (something unpleasant, especially an injury).
  3. uphold, affirm, or confirm the justice or validity of.

Who do you sustain?

xoxo,

the bbb blogger

5 Ways to Be Weird: Lessons Learned from Cats

“Whatever makes you weird is probably your greatest asset.”

True or false?

Joss Whedon said it. It must be true.

Quest time. How do you even find your weirdness? What if you don’t think you’re weird? Is not being weird weird? You’re probably worried now that you don’t have a great asset.

Have no fear! Take advice from cats.

5 Ways to Be Weird: Lessons Learned from Cats

1. Embrace your inner, wild animal. Don’t let anybody intimidate you! Their opinion doesn’t matter, anyway.

Rawr. (image from here)

2. Smile. Embrace your weird smile or laugh or giggle. Whether or not you think it’s weird, you’ll make others smile, too.

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Hey there, sexy. (image from here)

3. Sleep. Nap. More. Anywhere. Not only will you look weird, but you’ll encourage others to embrace weird sleeping times and locations, as well.

zzzzzzz (image from here)

4. Transport yourself. Does that even make sense? Anway, maybe how you get places helps define who you are. You can be “that guy” who drives a golf cart or “that girl” who gets around in a wheelchair or “that kid” that only hops on one foot everywhere. Oh, you’re so cool. I mean, weird.

If anything, at least while you are busy getting around, allow yourself time to ponder and to consider who you really are.

This cat uses the transportation system the right way. (image from here)

5. Clean. Cleanliness is next to weirdliness, right? Maybe not. But it can be! Whether you like to clean or not, doesn’t matter. It’s how you clean that matters. Cats clean themselves with their tongues. Now, it would be really weird if you did that. However, I’m suggesting something more like listening to certain songs when dusting or doing yoga when doing the dishes. Do your thing.

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Anyways, here are just 5 ideas. Only 5! These tips are just stepping stones to help you find your greatest asset—your weirdness. And you don’t have to take my word for it. 🙂

Do you have any tips of how you find your weirdness ?

It must be true. (image from here)

One Year Anniversary

Exactly one year ago, I started my blog! What started out as a class assignment has turned into a beautiful blog! ❤ Thank you for your support. Celebrate with me! Do something beautiful, for yourself, for someone you love, for a stranger, whatever! Then post in the comments below. What did you do? I wanna know!

Thanks! 🙂  I hope you all have had a beautiful year.

xoxo,

the bbb blogger

happiness secret

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“In the story The Little Prince, the fox was wiser than he knew when he said, “Now here is my secret, a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye” (Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince, trans. Katherine Woods [1943], 70). The odyssey to happiness lies in the dimension of the heart. Such a journey is made on stepping-stones of selflessness, wisdom, contentment, and faith. The enemies of progress and fulfillment are such things as self-doubt, a poor self-image, self-pity, bitterness, and despair. By substituting simple faith and humility for these enemies, we can move rapidly in our search for happiness.”

~James E. Faust, “Our Search for Happiness”

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5 Things to Know about Virtual Assistants

1. Why hire a high-level virtual assistant

Business owners use virtual assistants not only to reduce workload but also to increase revenue. Business owners accomplish more by outsourcing “or delegat[ing] the non-revenue generating or moneymaking tasks to a Virtual Assistant or ‘VA.’”[1]

2. How much to pay a virtual assistant

How much a business owner pays a VA will vary. The cost can range as widely as $5.50 to $30. However, the difference in cost can depend on skill level, reliability, whether the project is for short term or long term, and where the virtual assistant lives.[2]

3. Where to find a virtual assistant

Here are 20 websites to find a VA:

  1. Twitter
  2. Assistant Match
  3. Office Details
  4. Craigslist
  5. VA Networking
  6. Resource Nation
  7. Virtual Assistants
  8. International Virtual Assistants Association
  9. Virtual Assistance U
  10. Tasks EveryDay
  11. Virtual Assistance Chamber of Commerce
  12. Team Double Click
  13. AssistU
  14. Staff Centrix
  15. Elance
  16. Find Virtual
  17. Get Friday
  18. Longer Days
  19. Hire My Mom
  20. Guru[3]

4. What qualities to look for in a virtual assistant

Smart business owners do not hire just anyone. Of course, business owners want to hire high-level VA, who will charge higher prices probably. The VA needs to have certain qualities, such as the following:

  1. “Their own office space and equipment”
  2. “A flexible schedule”
  3. “Multiple communication options”
  4. “Internet experience”
  5. “Excellent written and verbal communication skills”
  6. “Independent critical-thinking ability”
  7. “Native English speaking”
  8. “Someone who can suggest a better way of accomplishing a task”[4]

5. What to outsource to a virtual assistant

Here are 10 things to outsource to a VA:

  1. Bookkeeping
  2. Online research
  3. Database entries
  4. Data presentations
  5. Managing email
  6. Social tasks
  7. Travel research
  8. Scheduling
  9. Chasing business
  10. Industry knowledge[5]

 

Key terminology

  • Virtual assistant: “A virtual assistant(typically abbreviated to VA, also called a virtual office assistant) is generally self-employed and provides professional administrative, technical, or creative (social) assistance to clients remotely from a home office.”[6]
  • Outsource: “To send out (work, for example) to an outside provider or manufacturer in order to cut costs.”[7]

Questions

  1. Is hiring a virtual assistant right for me as a business owner?
  • You should hire a virtual assistant if you believe that it will save you time and money, especially when you look at the long-term outcomes.
  1. Why should I hire a high-level virtual assistant?
  • High-level virtual assistants may cost more. However, they will think independently, work faster, and communicate clearly when writing and speaking. As a result, you will be less stressed and worried.
  1. What is outsourcing? What are the benefits?
  • Outsourcing occurs when a business owner delegates assignments to a virtual assistant. If a business owner hires a high-quality assistant, not just the person who offers the lowest bid, the virtual assistant can help reduce business costs and stress on the company.

end notes:

[1] See http://www.myevpllc.com/top-10-reasons-to-hire-a-high-level-virtual-assistant/.

[2] See http://www.hireyourvirtualassistant.com/blog/deciding-how-much-to-pay-a-virtual-assistant-rate-hourly-wage-salary-fees/.

[3] See http://www.dumblittleman.com/2008/12/20-places-to-find-top-notch-virtual.html.

[4] See http://www.myevpllc.com/top-10-reasons-to-hire-a-high-level-virtual-assistant/.

[5] http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/225318

[6] See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virtual_assistant.

[7] See http://www.thefreedictionary.com/outsource.

Tuesday Tunes: Amanda Palmer, “What’s the Use of Won’drin'”

Artist: Amanda Palmer

Song: “What’s the Use of Won’drin'” (from the musical Carousel)


lyrics

What’s the use of wond’rin’
If he’s good or if he’s bad
Or if you like the way he wears his hat

Oh, what’s the use of wond’rin’
If he’s good or if he’s bad
He’s your fella and you love him
That’s all there is to that

Common sense may tell you
That the ending will be sad
And now’s the time to break and run away
But what’s the use of wond’rin’
If the ending will be sad
He’s your fella and you love him
There’s nothing more to say

Something made him the way that he is
Whether he’s false or true
And something gave him
The things that are his
One of those things is you

So when he wants your kisses
You will give them to the lad
And anywhere he leads you, you will walk
And any time he needs you
You’ll go running there like mad

You’re his girl and he’s your fella
And all the rest is talk